I would suggest you change your mentality, because with this kind of thought process you are only hurting yourself. I actually checked out your stream out of curiosity and I can already give you some constructive criticism of why your stream is not successful.
Don't turn your stream past 2500 bitrate if you don't have quality options, and that is already rough for some people.
I would trim out your webcam size a little, there's a lot of useless space in there. Also your mic quality isn't great, not sure what you are using, but try to move it closer to your face.
2-3 hours isnt ''a ton of hours'', looking at your past broadcasts you either deleted your vods or you are just getting started again. Some streams starting at 21 sept and before that none since May? You can't expect to grow a stream like that.
Use your twitter, turn off that crowdfire spam shit and be CONSISTENT that is the most important part. Stream at the same time everyday, announce when you are going live, what you are playing, interact with other streamers that are similar size. You can't go into it just playing random games at a random time, disappear for weeks and expect to grow your channel.
I used to think similarly to you, looking at these kinds of girls and thinking they were taking away my views. Ill put it into perspective : I have been streaming for almost 3 years (with some breaks) Since the beginning of this year I have been streaming 30+ hours a week, improving my stream quality, improving my skill while not streaming and working really hard at building up my channel. I finally got partnered a month ago. Some people get lucky and grow out of nowhere, most people have to grind and still aren't able to make it. It takes HARD work.
Don't take this post as an insult or an attack, I just see too many people that like to blame external factors for their lack of success, and I used to be one of them as well.