The lady was in here 30s.. also so it was kind of a fucked up situation. I was friends with her kids, my mom was friends with her. We all went to church together and I didn't want to stirr the boat and be known as the kid that had that happen to me at church. My sister was good friends with her daughter too, so I didn't want to ruin their relationships. So i kept it all to myself, the lady ended up dying though a few years later.. so it solved itself i guess.. Went to therapy for it though, still struggle with relationships because of it. But I'm finally getting to that point where I feel comfortable being in a relationship again. Take it a little by little.