My brother forced me to suck his dick when I was a kid. Oddly enough, we've completely ignored the fact that ever happened and have a pretty good relationship now. I've never brought it up or told anyone.

A girl I dated in middle school (I was 12-13) showed up at my house and told me we had to have sex or she'd leave me. I was a massive loner and didn't want to lose the only person that talked to me, so I didn't resist. She then told everyone at school we'd had sex. I tried to tell her it made me feel gross and I didn't want to do it again, and she turned it into me being an asshole and that I should feel sorry. I told her I didn't mean it like that, but then she told her mom and the kids at school I forced her to do it. Nothing really came from it other than everyone not liking me. She continued to talk to me though, and like an idiot, I stayed with her until I was 17.

She knew I was scared to be alone, and knew I had no one else to talk to and used that against me constantly.

I didn't really realize I'd been taken advantage of until I was older and noticed I had a decent amount of sexual hang-ups. Thanks for reading