[Serious][NSFW] People who've had sugar daddies/sugar mommies, how did you get into it?

First timer here.

About two years back I was trying to get a job and I sent an email with resume to what I thought was a secretary-type job. It was not. I got a reply back from an older-ish dude asking me how would I like a sugar daddy. Me being a pretty naive nineteen I thought to myself, 'well, maybe I could just meet him, feel out the situation, see what it's about'

We set up a time and day to meet, as he lived in another county and was quite busy. I met him and he was nice enough, pretty decent looking guy for his age (34 I was told). We had agreed to go to Starbucks and just talk for about an hour and see how we liked each other. He took the drive thru, citing that he didn't want to make me uncomfortable with anyone in my hometown seeing us together. Before I knew it, he was checking us into a hotel for a few hours. All he did was pull out some porn and feel me up pretty aggressively but I still didn't like it. Eventually I told him I wanted to leave and he agreed, I assume because he didn't want to feel like he was pushing me too far after totally skipping the chatting. He drove me to my block and gave me a couple hundred dollars. We didn't speak for a few days.

I did however put some things together in the meantime. He obviously had a thing for younger-looking girls and used the Craigslist scam to get emails. This guy was the coach of a girls softball team. My nineteen year old self that still looks pretty young today enabled him to get off on his fantasy. I wasn't drugged and he didn't violate me but he still did something wrong, I felt, and despite his offers to take me to a concert I had told him I really wanted to go to, I blocked his email. I just didn't feel comfortable with it. I never tried to contact him but I did try to rationalize it in my head, that it was a lot of money just to watch him jack off but it was 1) pretty disgusting and 2) he would have pushed further if he had the opportunity.

Tl;dr: unknowingly submitted my resume to a sugar daddy looking for a girl to satisfy his softball teen craving.

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