Sometimes love feels awful, like god this person is such a jerk, I hate them, but love is a promise not an emotion, and those little feelings of irritation or annoyance, exhaustion will pass, and if the person you love is a good, compassionate person, then a lot of the time those negative feelings are reflections of an internal issue or otherwise it's something than can be resolved with a bubblebath and some open communication. Sometimes love feels warm and fuzzy, like kittens inside your chest. Appreciate those times because everything is temporary, but that doesn't make those good feelings less real. A lot of the time love feels mundane, like walking your dog or going to the gym. You're putting in time and effort for something you believe in and want to stick with it. Mostly love feels comfortable, like reading a book on the couch, making dinner, decorating a christmas tree. If you're with someone for a long time, they will in some ways become just an extension of yourself. If you put yourself first and care for yourself and love yourself, eventually two people can come together and start putting the relationship first. It's a lot of sacrifice, and there are always hard times, but it can be worth it.