Agreed. When we broke up, I told everyone that I didn’t want to know anything. I don’t want to hear what’s being posted on social media, what is happening in her life, etc. I didn’t want to be held back from moving on. Luckily, people were respectful of that. I’m not even interested in what’s going on with her at this point. None of it bothers me and my new life is great. In regards to this situation, two of these people never even met my ex in person. They only knew who she was because they know me. It basically goes like this: “Hey weren’t you dating ex? Do you know that her new girlfriend does meth? I saw her buying meth at so-and-so’s house the other day.” They tell me the story and then the subject is changed. I don’t see them often enough for it to be brought up again. I did tell the third person that they should say something themselves. I’m not sure if that will lead anywhere. I can go with or without saying anything to my ex. Her life no longer has an impact on mine. I just don’t want to hold onto this information if the right thing would be to say something. That’s why I’m asking for advice. I feel like I’d want to know but everyone is different.