IDK why people invest so much emotion into chatting with individual hook ups on Tinder. For everyone it's just like grocery shopping.

For most men it's like grocery shopping during the pandemic. You don't get picky over the brand of toilet paper; you take what you can find or you won't get anything.

For most women it's like grocery shopping during normal times. You don't like the branding of one item, you pick the other one right next to it on the shelf. Why waste time standing there fuming at the one item you didn't like when there are so many other options you can move on with? You're just going to consume it and get another next week anyway. It's not worth your time.