I get what you're saying! But i don't regret going to the HR at all because i felt harrassed in that meeting by my supervisor. If i say that i don't want to talk about something infront of a group of people i really do mean it.

You know what was odd? After my supervisor had it out with me in that meaning, that following day before my HR was able to talk to her my supervisor walked over to the coworker with a huge smile on her face & she whispered in her ear..

That's exactly why i said i didn't want to work with her again! to avoid that drama from happening in the future & my supervisor agreed saying it's for the best we don't work together.