I was in a pretty awful relationship for five years. My gf was domineering to say the least. I was in a very low point in my life and needed someone to be with me, otherwise I could have quite possibly taken my own life. We had a lot of problems, but neither of us could walk away. Towards the end of the relationship she started getting violent, especially when drinking. Kicking, punching, slapping etc etc etc. I never hit her back, I would just push her hard enough to keep her at bey, nothing considered violent. Not that kind of person. In the two years to follow, she became very demanding about sex. Insisting and eventually forcing me to fuck her whenever she wanted. I wouldn't want to, tell her I didn't want to, and then she would basically emasculate and harass me until I would give in. I was emotionally weak at that time in my life, so giving into her demands hurt less than being told how pathetic I was by someone who said they loved me. Then I would be further emasculated because I didn't perform well enough. I had eventually lost the ability to cum when her and I had sex, which made things so much worse. We broke up in 2012 and I'm now happily married to the sweetest, kindest woman in the world. But it's taken me a while to finally look back and say "I was raped". Still to this day I have incredible fear when it comes to sex and find myself distracted so much. I had to pretend I was somewhere else during sex with my ex for at least two years and even now I have trouble with concentrating or not associating sex with humiliation. The more I think about it, the more I want counseling. Women rape men. Thank you Sweden for taking us seriously.

tl;dr my girlfriend would force me into sex by harassing and emasculating me. Still not completely comfortable with sex three years later.