I read that the brainwaves change at 9 years old and whatever you saw, learned and experienced before 9 years old is like programming a software and the rest of our lives, we just run that programmed software. As someone with CPTSD raised by violent parents and I've intentionally been single for 8 years because I saw that I was attracted to abusive men (I'm 29) and I keep my distance even with female friends because of how my mother was with me, I tend to attract needy women, these articles scare me that I'll be like this for the rest of my life. I'm in therapy and I try to evolve everyday as a human but I feel for them, it must've been exasperating