I worked up the nerve to call my clinic today and ask for clarity/complain about my second FET being pushed back by 5 days after lining check appts because of their scheduling issues. I am super nonconfrontational so this was a big move for me.

I basically told the nurse that I am worried my 1st FET failed because they were overbooked then also and even though my lining was 9mm at lining check appt I was told I had to wait 6 days to start progesterone as they didn't have an available transfer appt open for another 11 days. I told her that the same situation occured at my most recent lining check and I am considering cancelling my upcoming transfer because of it. She was very patient with me while I went on about my frustrations and fears. She then went in to detail about the meds I am on and how they are used to control my cycle/uterine lining and what happens to my lining throughout a medicated FET cycle. She told me that although she understands why I am considering cancelling, medically, I have no reason to fear that pushing my transfer back the 5 days would cause the transfer to fail.

She was really understanding and helped set my mind at ease about going ahead with the upcoming transfer. She was also apologetic about both delays but assured me that they would not proceed if there was any evidence to support the success of the transfer being in jeapordy or they would accommodate an earlier transfer if success depended on it. I am still very annoyed with my clinic for doing this to us twice in a row... but I am at least no longer driving myself crazy feeling like it's destined to fail. Just the normal fears going into another transfer after 1st failed.

Thanks for all the support as I bitched and moaned about the delays the past few days!