Just want to say ... you come here asking for advice. Asking for opinions, etc.... and when those of us dont tell you what you WANT to hear, you down vote. You remind me of a friend I had for years, who married this guy who cheated on her, couldn't stand being around her, and yet she made up every excuse in the book for him when she didnt hear what she wanted to hear. Her and I are no longer friends because I got tired of listening to her complain about her cheating husband, and I stopped telling her what she wanted to hear ... "Oh it's okay, he really loves you ... I'm sure he's not REALLY cheating" .... You're that person. Why did you come here asking people for advice, and asking what they they think, if you are just going to do the opposite. I Hope you don't get pregnant, cause if you do, then I'm gonna feel sorry for him. Because of the reason behind it.