UPDATE: Met a 42 year old man and am crushing but he hasn't called. Need men's perspective, please.

It's interesting that on one post you call me crazy, desperate and ask that I leave the man alone and on another you seem to want that it works out the way I see it? Confused. Most folks I am not able to convince so easily. I do have a good head on my shoulder and at the same time I am also fun, playful, shallow, sometimes ill-mannered, loud, kind, genuine, loving and generous. This post was an update to 3 day old post that received close to 200 comments and the majority of it was that I am a bitch and that the guy will not contact me or at best I am on his list as a booty call. Not sure why people thought that if I didn't 'put out' the night I was so enamored by the suddenness of meeting him, I would suddenly be okay spreading my legs wide as soon as he texts me supposedly for a booty call. I don't sleep around - not that there would anything to judge were I to decide to do just that. I like this guy - I don't like 99% of people I meet and likewise I am not their cup of tea. So, yeah again, I hope my impression of him holds out and if not, at least I felt something I haven't felt in a very very long time.

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