3. Went on a date with a self-hating Gay Asian. I feel like crying.

Went on a date with a self-hating Gay Asian. I feel like crying.

Hey man.

Yeah I know, its been a few months since, in the meantime ive done a bit more research, turns you you are completely correct that this wasnt unique at all, the amount of self hate among gaysians is quite shocking here. Many dye their hair blonde (arent fooling anyone and it actually looks ridiculous) or get eye surgery for double eyelids, its really sad if you think about it.

In the meantime, ive been on a few more dates with white guys and hey, back to normal - no more bullshit or concern what is my ethnicity.

So, my dating experience with gay men has been limited to White and Hispanics. I've found that many rice queens like their heterosexual counterparts actually prefer Hapas like me over monoracial Asians.

! Its funny, I had a feeling that this would be the case too! I was wondering why I'm having it so good among white guys while full asians cop so much rejection from them instead. Well, hey all i can say is, feel proud and happy to be a gay Eurasian - thats the way I feel anyways. :) Feels like the "unique and exotic" trait actually works in your favour here, to those I have told my ethnicity, they only end up saying how hot they think it really is.

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