Personally, I think that by nature women seek a man who can support and protect them. They want a leader. When a man is confident, he’s saying he can be that leader and she can trust her life/future/children/etc. with him. When a man is not confident at all, how can he be a protector and lead the family?

This may come off as “sexist” to some feminists out there, but nature is nature, and even though it’s on a subconscious level, these thoughts are happening.

Side note... Confident doesn’t mean lacking insecurities, it just means being able to handle things and being confident in his abilities and decisions. I love that my man can take charge and at the same time come to me when he’s struggling and be vulnerable to me. It’s very attractive and makes me feel connected with him. I know that I can trust him and rely on him and I’m honored he feels the same towards me.