I think you misunderstood me. I've never thrown anything towards her or with the intention of hitting her. I've for example thrown my phone on the ground when I get angry at it. I am not physically aggressive towards her, maybe I worded myself in a bad way and it came out this way.

Second I am not constantly texting her. It was in the context of her saying she won't be coming home late prior to going out and then afterwards it became late and she wasn't home so I was worried if something may have happened. So I felt sending me a short message that she is all good is not a bad idea. Never did I mention she has to report everything to me. It was in that specific context.

And of course the headlights were not turned on because of me. I am saying, it's super dark why would you honk at someone on the street at midnight? What the hell.