What do you feel are the pros and cons of dating you?

Oo this is fun!

Pros:

  • I'm fun. And funny and totally goofy all the time. I sang songs in a Louis Armstrong voice the entire time I did the dishes tonight.

  • I'm independent.

  • I'm active, outgoing, and confident.

  • I'm successful, very smart, and incredibly motivated.

  • I'm incredibly talented not just at my job but in the arts as well

  • I'm super organized and responsible, but I'm also very practical and know when to just let shit go so I'm not super high strung.

  • I have a great family and love them so much.

  • I love helping others and making other people happy. I volunteer on a regular basis.

  • I'm also fairly routine in daily life so I'm consistent. Not a lot of surprises, even my 5-10 minute tardiness is incredibly consistent.

  • I'm straightforward. No games, no BS. You'll know where you stand and I'll be honest about how I'm feeling, good or bad.

  • I'm not materialistic. I hate jewelry and don't give 2 craps about designer anything. I'm pretty simple, don't need much, and I like to go halfsies on everything.

Cons:

  • I sometimes have anxiety that gets the best of me.

  • I will be 5-10 minutes late to everything.

  • Sometimes I let work take over my life because I love my work but I sometimes have to remind myself to maintain the other things in my life that matter more in the long run. I guess I'd say I can get a little too caught up in my own stuff.

  • I'm a horrible cook. But I do like doing dishes.

  • I like to talk, especially about myself (haha just look at my list!), family, friends, life experiences, etc. I'm better with listeners than with other talkers but I'm working on that.

  • I get frustrated with slowness sometimes because I'm an extremely efficient person.

  • I don't need others to feel good about myself or to be happy. If you piss me off, unless you're family or someone like family, I'm done. It's not worth it to me to stick around.

  • I will injure myself physically/mentally/emotionally pushing myself past my limits for things I really love or care about.

  • If I am hungry, run. To the nearest grocery store. And don't come back without food.

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