If I'm panting and focused on whatever good rhythm and pressure you are working, Don't. Change. Anything. Keep doing it.

For a lot of us, reaching orgasm is like climbing a hill; change anything on the ascent and we start over at the bottom.

Know where the clit is, figure out the difference between it and my urethra, and ask me how I like to be touched. For some of us, a light tongue directly on the clit is nice, and fingers should just move the hood back and forth over the clit. Some of us use a feather touch and some need a good, hard grind. Ask, or observe. We're all different, just like you.

Ask me to masturbate and copy what I'm doing.

Some of us like to rub our clit on your pubic bone while you're inside. Help me. Arch your back and thrust your hips up and grab my waist or thighs and rub me back and forth on your dick/pubic bone. I'll get off so hard I'll collapse on your chest.

Nipples are just as touchy as clits. Some of us need a good hard pinch or suck(not me; I'll buck like a pissed off bronco) and some of us like a soft tongue and gentle pressure. Ask.

Feedback. We love it. A responsive partner is fucking amazing to play with. I want to hear or feel when you are excited.