In no particular order: “Friend” ripped me off for a couple hundred bucks when I was 18. Called me at 2am to make fun of a tattoo I had gotten. Knew I was crushing on someone, slept with them a few days after finding out about the crush, then called me to explain the experience in vivid detail. “Friend” knew I love Halloween and was moving out of state in a few months, sabotaged my Halloween plans in that city knowing I was moving out of state and then bragged about it to a few people. A different mutual friend ended up having a crush on me and I didn’t have the same feelings, shitty “friend” a few days after pursued mutual friend and they fooled around a bit. I really don’t know why I put up with so much of the bull shit and for whatever reason, the final straw was the ripping me off for several hundred dollars.

Different person: friend/co-worker one day got into the office and greeted everyone in the saying good morning and specifically adding the person’s name. She addressed everyone in the office but me. She did this for a few days. One of those days in particular, she seemed upset so I asked her if she was doing okay/ if anything was wrong while in our cubicle space, she got mad at me and said something along the lines of how I was being incredibly unprofessional and to never address her like that in public again. It was at that exact moment I knew we were no longer friends. There were a few other instances of her trying to undermine me/ get me in trouble, but at that point she made it well known she had a vendetta against me because my boss had assigned me something she thought she was more deserving of.