One of his best friends hit on me via texts one day. We were discussing an upcoming camping trip and he started to throw some “ideas” out there. I was completely disgusted, told him how devastated my SO would be and only respond in groupchats now. His girlfriend is also a good friend of mine, which makes it even worse.

I didn’t mention it because my SO was having a really, REALLY stressful time during that week, and as more time passed it just became harder to bring it up. He doesn’t have many friends to begin with, and he looks up to this one so much. His friend and I have never, ever talked about it since and we just ignore each other for the most part at social gatherings. I still have mixed feelings about not telling him.