Obviously I sound like an asshole without context. Hell, I probably am even with.

A mutual friend tried to set something up even though I wasn't interested because I had just gotten out of a shitty relationship. We talked for a bit before meeting up and she clearly had personal problems. For the most part I was able to overlook that because she was a genuinely kind and pretty girl. However, it ruled her life. Every time we talked it always "why me?" "This isn't how I wanted it and my life sucks because of it". Was it wrong of me to agree to meet up, make out, and leave? Maybe, actually most likely yes. But if you think that having a relationship will solve all of your problems just because you have a shoulder to cry on that's wrong. I had literally gotten out of that and I wasn't about to dive right back in. I myself had been dealing with my own depression and anxiety and was/currently am only worried about my own mental health. I can't be worried about yours 24/7 as well. I am always available to talk to anyone about their issues but never again will I have a relationship that someone thinks it's ok for another to heft their baggage. And yes, she did still smell weird which was actually the deal breaker.

TL;DR: My health > yours