Which physical aspects of a man is an instant turn on for you?

You don’t really owe any apology.

All I wanted was mutually we could truly understand each other. I noticed that it was possible if we just tried to clarify each other’s thoughts and meanings more deliberately, also tried to understand each other’s context more deeply, I realized it could happen. And we actually made it.

When you told me “You felt like I was having a go” (I knew what that expression meant) I finally got some aha moment. Then I could see how to fix this circumstance by that clue. I just realized I needed to let you know I had no hostility or an intention to hurt your mind at all. And thankfully you understood that altogether.

Well, that’s why I love clarification. It can give us such a positivity for our mind and great outcomes.

From this conversation, I could learn valuable things than you might assume.

Communication can be blissful for our minds to have an opportunity to be inspired, healed, appreciated in a different viewpoint.

I hope you can feel validated with recognizing your trauma. I would not say too presumably, but I could somehow grasp that you might have gone through hard situations more than you told me here.

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