Please don't be serious, you're making me sad ... Do you think it'd be possible for you to post a picture of yourself? Most of my Black friends in America are African, and they don't have any more dating woes than many of my non Black friends, so I don't think it's just a physical issue for you.

As far as attracting White men, I grew up in a upper middle/upper class community that was predominately Caucasian (around 99%) & Republican. Even though I moved years ago, my personality was shaped in the environment, and I'm pretty sure that is what attracts many White men to me more than anything else. If I looked the same, but grew up in a poorer neighborhood or was culturally more like certain stereotyical African Americans in the U.S, then I probably wouldn't attract White guys the same way I do now. American culture portrays Black and White people as polar opposites in every way, and if that isn't drawing the two groups towards one another out of curiosity (black men/white women), then its repelling them (white men/black women). Remember America's race issues put White men as the "bad guy" or enemy of Blacks more often than not. White men are not usually welcomed by the Black community with open arms and are often distrusted, so many have no interest in dating a Black woman who is culturally a part of that. Personally, I think this has a lot more to do with the two not dating as often than physical differences do.

Now, my worry is that if you understand this then you may try to start acting like a stereotypical White woman, but that's just fakeness and not attractive to anyone either (insecurity). The best option for you, for dating, is to win men over with that good, old fashioned feminine charm like our grandmothers used to do, lol. (My mom always says it's "Style, smile & personality"... oh, and be an epic cook!)