Cocaine is a sneaky drug that can still attract my attention many years later. I’m sober five years from alcohol and 100 percent know I will never drink again, but I don’t know if I could resist a little coke if it appeared in front of me, especially if one of my best buddies was talking me into it. Of course I cut all those people out of my life when I got sober to limit my own exposure to temptation, but cocaine, cocaine is a hell of a drug. Just writing about it has a tiny part of me fondly missing it.

NTA. This is way bigger than he’s just a creepy guy. He’s also someone who can indirectly destroy your marriage before it even starts. Is he coming to the bachelor party? Is he bringing coke? Is it one last fun time? Cocaine is not necessarily physically addictive like heroin or meth, but it is mentally addictive/attractive and takes years to lose it’s luster. The person doing it will hide it from you, it’s easy to hide. Eventually though, addiction creeps up, money gets wasted and personalities get twisted. Better have a serious talk with the fiancé about cocaine, drugs in general, toxic people, honesty above all and your future plans as a strong team.