I didn't want any from teens-early 20s. It probably didn't help that I was forced to care for my baby brother (born 10 years younger than me) when I was 10, and continue into my teens. It was the worst. I still very much dislike babies and everything to do with them. However now, mid 20s, I want what comes after that. I want a young child to teach and bond with. I want every step of them growing up and becoming their own person. From blocks, to nail painting and soccer games, through school and homework help, to teaching how to drive, through job searching and post secondary, helping them rent their first place, to buying their first home. I want it all. A bond for life. My partner does too and we're looking forward to it.

I can't help but wonder if I'd be looking forward to the baby phase too if it were not for my age 10 trauma. I guess I'll never know. It's something I'm willing to endure though if it means I can enjoy everything else that comes after.