Would Peter dinklage have his hot wife if he wasn't a successful actor?

What a condescending question.

Dinklage married Schmidt in 2005. How long they've been dating before that is unclear. Whether he was a successful actor by 2005 is arguable.

Nevertheless, here's the real answer to your question: The large majority of people will manage to find relationships of some kind or another. Some of these people will suffer from the same kinds of impairments that you believe is holding you back. So the question isn't whether it's possible for you to find a partner, because it is. The question is what can you do about it. I'm not going to list off platitudes not tailored to your situation because the answer of course depends on who you are, and what problems you face.

If you don't believe me take a quick stroll in any populated area. You'll find people from all backgrounds in relationships. You can blame your loneliness on your genes, or your situation, or even luck - and your situation may very well be significantly influenced by your genes, or your situation, or your luck - but that isn't going to do shit for you. And the answer to this question ain't going to do shit for you either.

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