A direct message from him. Trying to provide his input as well to get a more balanced perspective.

"I don't think you're ever going to accept that the reason as to why it seemed as though I was just trying to find a problem in retaliation to you was because I was actually waiting until after Valentine's Day to risk an argument. The reason as to why I didn't delete her straight away was because it would automatically validate your reasons for being upset without any acknowledgement of my concerns. Which ironically is what's happened".

This was a another message I received on valentine's day although he has since tried to get back with me even though I've just demanded to be reimbursed and want nothing to do with him (despite feeling quite vulnerable since he has tried to see me and hug me-I was feeling Ok until this). "The reasons as to why I'm breaking up with you: -you cause public scenes -you defame me -you have a frivolous intervention order against me which you continue to tell people about. As if it were justified (I told sally about the order...to warn her...I don't think many people can put up with what I endure) -you push me out of lifts in front of everyone (I told him to get out of my building in front of people once) -you refuse to talk about anything amicably and scream to hold me at ransom -you constantly involve other people in our arguments (sally) -you had a relationship behind my back with a methhead (this is in reference to the date I got after I found out about cassie, methhead and I did not have a relationship but when I found out I called him and cried and he said he would take me out he is very scary and I never liked him though) -you've trashed me to people Stop bothering me and people whom I know (sally). I have never talked about personal information of yours which you've entrusted to me (he made up some lies about me having 4 intervention orders to sally), I'd appreciate if you could also give me the same dignity.

"You know what you need to do to resolve it." "Don't slander me. I'm actually so disgusted. You have such little loyalty" "I'm not going to do fucking anything for you until you realise what you've done to me and how you've made me feel and your hand in this. " in reference to valentine's day deleting her "If you made a fucking effort and didn't slander me (to sally). Of course I'd do whatever you wanted." "The only way I'd ever consider seeing you is if you -didn't spread shit about me -didn't act like a hussy on tinder -didn't defame me to people If you actually think I'm abusive I can't be with you?" "The fact that you're bringing up the restraining orders shows how you feel about me." "This is about you pushing me out of lifts (he admits I didn't push him)" "After you message everyone dragging my name through the dirt." In reference to our mutual friends after cassie. "I'm the one who's done. Sweetheart. Ball is in your court to make up for everything. Your time to Shine. You shouldn't have screamed and made massive scenes last night either." "You can bend over backwards for last night. You make the first move to redeem your bullshit. And honestly be sorry for last night" "Then if I love you I'll delete them.: "Time for you to take the risk and the first move for once princess." "I'm going off Facebook now. If you realise the error of your ways (I say this to him and he is using my words). I'm at home. You can come fix it. Or start to. But I think I should just be done. For Good." This is going backwards to Valentine's day. Since he messages me saying he loves me and wants to work things out etc.