This is the truth. Back in college, I was buddies with these 2 guys. Let's just call them Craig and Anthony. Looking back, both were very BP. Craig bragged that he had been with many chicks. Anthony was just Anthony. He didn't have any friends but he was tolerated in the group. This is all in hindsight. If I knew at the time what I know now, I would've got out of dodge fast. The fact is they were both lost when it came to chicks. Craig stabbed a friend of his in the back so he could get used-up cocaine-addict pussy. He didn't know it but I did because I was into coke at the time and I knew a dealer who used to see this girl a lot. Me and him were buddies. He would always talk about how great she was in bed. She was attractive and for all I know, her coke payments weren't cash payments. I never told Craig. One day, me, Craig and this girl start talking and she starts going on this tangent about how much of a video game fan she is. She said she loved MK. He was impressed. When we split from her that day, Craig started telling me that the stars were aligned for him and this girl to be together.
They eventually were.
I swear the first thing he told me about it was that she went to his house and they had sex. Like the dealer, he also talked about how good she was in bed.
Weeks pass and she says plenty of things that make me shake my head while Craig is all lovey-dovey and Anthony (who had just started tagging along) IS TAKING RELATIONSHIP ADVICE FROM HER. Eventually, it comes out from HER that she DOES have a history with cocaine. I already knew it but now Craig knew it - didn't change ANYTHING. A few more days pass and he reveals to ME that she had relapsed and that she was gonna get put in rehab. After all the complaints about how she basically was a psycho, I suggested to Craig that he move on to another chick. Anthony just told me in a really condescending tone, "he's in love, [therellikofthenight.]" Craig shook his head as if to say "yes." I was caught off guard.
And that was the beginning of the end. The girl didn't like me as a person and Craig was so in love that he thought I was trying to pit myself against her. It wasn't true but he went with it.
He had said he was scared he had gotten her pregnant. Imagine that - this pussy could've been responsible for making a cocaine addict the mother of his baby. Then there was Anthony, who said he had only had ONE girlfriend in his life. He was convinced he knew what "true love" was. He tried to get back with his old GF from high school and it BLEW UP in his face. She played him into thinking he had a chance but it turns out she already had a man. And many other men. But when it came down to him, she just wanted to be friends. The poor guy was crushed.
I was very blunt with how my relationships with women went. None of it was exactly about me supplicating. No fucking way. They both resented me for it. It's a long story. They started to think I was the asshole, the pig and all that other shit. We went our separate ways and we were never friends again. Craig reached out to me several times to hang out. He even tried to mingle with my "basketball" circle so he could ask - I always said no. And from then on, I never tried getting back in contact with him or Anthony. They were both pussies and they were both useless. I haven't made that mistake again.