I was being sarcastic when I said it happened to a friend. It happens to people every day.

“Yah well my boyfriend would NEVER do that” is exactly what the women who it happens to say”

I’m fully aware of what you were asking for when you posted this. My answer was not from misunderstanding the topic at hand. It was from genuine concern for your future.

Here is another argument. Sure the typical man would probably love some nudes. Society seems to think this is all good fun. But are you dating the typical man? Doesn’t sound like it. Some men would be absolutely offended that you send them nudes. They would think to themselves “what does she think I’m just an animal? I’m just one of those bros who wants to fuck a bunch of chicks?” Some men would wonder what you think of them if you think they would like you to objectify yourself for them. And some men would instantly lose respect for a woman who is willing to send nudes because they thought she was better than that, and now they realize she is just like all the others.

If you won’t think about your own future. Then think about what kind of man you are dating. Because he may very well have the opposite reaction to what you are expecting. I know my husband would be disappointed in me if i sent him some.