For those so quick to assume and judge others relationships based off of one side to it, I hope you have more common sense in real life than you do on here. I am the abusive monster in this post btw, My name is Laneshia. First off, you don't know me or what I have been through. You don't even know the man who wrote this post but I guess that doesn't matter anyhow. I am not coming on here to say didn't do anything and why me and omg everybody hates me. I actually came on here for advice but this is the wrong thread. I am not holding him hostage, he is a man, he can and does leave when he wants. As for me being dependent, no, I just don't have a vehicle. I'm from states where I didn't need one before I moved back here for school. Before we met, I was walking to work everyday. I also have been in abusive relationships with my exes and my family. I was abused as a child and no I'm not wanting a pity party, I'm simply stating a fact. I would and have never hurt my dog that I care more than anything in this world for, and she has never had a shock collar and I have Never abused her in any way, she is my baby. Period. And I am taking her with me to live and we are seperated because of lack of communication and we both have our faults. I have been through a hell of alot and seeing all this one sidedness on here made me realize everyone is so quick to judge someone else's relationship yet it's not advice. You don't just beat another down because you think you know what's really going on. That's why this world and/societies are so fucked up, because of all of this keyboard warrior trolling shit. You should communicate first, or you will end up like this. Resent each other. Hate that some can't man up or take your personality or your whole faults. I owned up to mine and we have seperated. You all must be happy, because I'm just an abusive dependent monster that is eating this man alive. I am leaving this and moving on with my life as I plan to do. To be free from this, Stephen, you could have tell me all this before all the major events happened to my face, I would have agreed it wasn't going to work. I am not going to hold you down, you are grown. As for the belittling up here and down there, I just lose all faith in you as a person and I think you need therapy, individual. I may get some too, I admit. Yes, I'm aware you are on the couch right now asleep but this is how I feel. Maybe now you will feel what I'm saying now that I put it online. I won't read the shit after this not will I probably ever see this again nor want to. I just wanted to put in my peace. No more arguing not fighting. I'm not going to fight for us. In not going to guilt you into staying. I want to be free of this mortifying situation that's now online for everybody on every continent to see and comment on. I got to sleep now, I can't waste time on here anymore, reading this over and over doesn't help anyone heal, not even you.