Um I wouldn’t put it that way, due to his insecurities, he thought that’s the only reason I liked him. I wouldn’t say we bonded over it, it’s complicated, I think it is helpful we both know what it’s like.

I’ve come to point I know I’m never going to be prefect, but I don’t think the excluded me from deserving to be, or capable of a healthy relationship.

I mean I’m not sure we’ve exclusively said that yet, what we’ve both said, is we’d like to get know each other more and see where things lead. And after he reached out after a week break, and explained what he was struggling v with, he said he’s like the chance to have a second date, and start again with me.