I'm curious what the exciting news was. Maybe it's that she found out she's pregnant or something? That's the only thing that would make her reaction at all understandable to me. Note I said "understandable," not "right."

INFO. I kinda get the feeling there's more to the story than what's stated here. The wife's attitude, the part about the shot of vodka on the way home from work, which, btw...you noted that this is during Covid and you can't leave the house, where did you get the shot? And were you driving? And why did you add that, because I don't see how it plays into the story, unless you're not mentioning something.

If there's nothing else to it, then yeah, wife is a jerk and dgaf about husband.