AITA for continuing to date my boyfriend even though I’m asexual?

NAH.

I am the same way. I have to make a lot of compromises in my relationships because I have very little sex drive. When I discovered that everyone else was thinking about sex all the time, if I do little weird to me. I didn’t go through the usual steps people do, with a mess around in high school and have horrible experiences in college.

That being said, and I did a lot of research and learn some interesting things about asexuality. There are different causes for low libido. A good friend of mine in the LGBT community thought she was a sexual and it turned out to be a hormone issue, which she saw Dr for.

I’m not trying to shame you into feeling bad about being asexual, I don’t think anyone should feel bad about wanting a lot of sex or wanting no sex at all. But, it sounds like you guys have reached the end of compromising and something needs to change.

If you’re comfortable with it, you should go see your gynaecologist and general doctor to talk about this. They could run some tests and see if it’s something physical or just how your wired. It could be a lot of things causing a sexuality, and I think it might help you guys if you also saw a couple Sterup pissed who focuses on the sex and talk it out. There might be something they could suggest that he would be comfortable with.

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