i would like to update; i have apologized to my friends for overreacting and asking them to apologize when they were just trying to protect me. my friend said she didnt mean to make me worry, which i do appreciate.

id also like to clarify one thing - i may be the asshole here, but i did not cause the toxicity in my past relationships. i understand being called an asshole, but please do not insert yourself into my relationship history without knowing what happened. my past relationships were extremely traumatic and i resent that people who know nothing about me or my relationship history are saying i was the problem.

i was not.

please be mindful when you comment on someone’s post. you do not know their history, nor what theyve endured.