Someone explain why she couldn't go in the sauna with the ring on. I don't frequent saunas. Just wondering if that was truly necessary and why.

OP knew her sister had a rule about the ring. If she was going to arrange a spa day, she probably shouldn't have included anything that would have involved ring removal.

7 years ago I found the love of my lifetime dead and it destroyed me. It pisses me off when people suggest I need to try and date again or think about relationships. When you're still in love with someone who has passed away, the idea of being with someone else can feel like betrayal. Betrayal of the love you lost and yourself.

There are some things you don't kid about on a personal level, make light of, or insinuate someone needs to get the fuck over: death. Some deaths you are never the same after, you do not get over. OP is the AH