35 Year old Vietnamese American guy here in NYC.

I typed a long ass post but Reddit ate it and shit it out into the latrine of the interwebs so I'll keep this short.

Yes it's easier in your 30's, no different from any other type of guy.

The reason is the following:

1) You're better at sex. You know what women like and can back it up because you've fucked up with women in your 20's and you're a veteran now.

2) You know when she's interested. You've basically screwed up so many times with women that you spot it when women are down with your vibe and don't pass up those opportunities anymore.

3) You've got your shit together. You've learned how to salsa dance, you've gotten good at playing music, you're the man when it comes to French and Russian post-modern philosophy. You've also learned how to box so you know you can scrap. You walk around with your head held high knowing you're the man and you can fuck up anyone who challenges you. (It's a bit rough here but you get the idea. My eloquent explanation, as mentioned, was eaten by Reddit)

4) You kind of don't give a fuck. You now know that dating and women are a bit of a numbers game. It's about the situation, how you feel that day, how she feels that date, and when your paths cross. Your opening line was awesome and you got the vibe that she was down. The next girl you talked to was in a bad mood, so you don't pay her any mind and go about your day knowing that there are others out there. You know you're the shit and you're someone's cup of tea, just like that girl is not everyone's cup of tea but someone out there will find her attractive. We all live in our own movie in our head, it's just recognizing that love, dating, sex, and the events of our lives are kinetic chains that traverse throughout our existence.

Life's short, make the move, star the conversation, make the connection. You never know where it will go. It could the the love story you tell your children or the funny story you tell your buddies at the bar. It's your move.