3. Being a mom vs dad

Being a mom vs dad

I spent so many days thinking about that. How I'd like to be a father, or to be a man in general. I just don't like what my body can do. I don't like the idea of sex, because it requires something that's not my body going INSIDE my body. I'm not asexual, I just wish I had a penis. And I would rather die than put myself through the absolute horror that is pregnancy and childbirth. Im staying single and celibate but it's so lonely. Most time I don't care and just work and than use the money to travel and drink, but sometimes I wish I wasn't cursed. I'm not depressed but I'm pretty sure I'll kill myself when I'm done, because I don't want my neighbors to find dead body long after I died, because nobody noticed, because I have nobody.

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