My husband and I went through something similar about a year ago. We are still recovering, but I have chosen to forgive him. I will never forget what he did but that experience showed is that it was worth saving. We have been going to counseling since then and have made a lot of progress. We've had our hiccups, but I truly believe that of both people are really committed to the relationship, they can make it through anything. It's gonna be hard, girlfriend, but if you want it and so does he then you can get through this. I'm sorry you have to go through this, trust me it's not going to be easy. But you are strong and if you want you can do anything :-)