I cheated and lost my soulmate’s trust; how can I live with the shame?

Again, the analysis isn't a binary: is she 'drunk' or 'sober'? Those conditions need to be defined, and they're defined on a scale. Your position relies on the fact that the OP be past a point on that scale.

Everything said up to this point is fact, and is not up for debate. The only thing up for debate is on what point of the scale the OP's intoxicated state is located. With the information present, I surmise that she hasn't passed that point on said scale. I've given my reasons above. We can agree to disagree, of course.

But - assuming that you're a somewhat intelligent and reasonable person - it would behoove you to apprise yourself of the laws surrounding this area before espousing incorrect (and dangerous) opinions.

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