IMO That’s very manipulative.

I was in a similar scenario: me getting ready to wind down and go to bed. Him: ohh let’s go! Me: let’s go what? Him: sex! Me: oh, I’m going to bed. Him: oh, are you not attracted to me anymore? Me: no, I’m just mentally and physically exhausted and I feel guilty for not wanting it at this moment. Him: we’ll I that’s fine but I guess I just won’t ask for sex anymore. Me: there’s no asking, maybe just make me feel desired? Him: we’ll, what about my feelings?!

All..all I wanted to do was go to bed

Another time he called me, at work, to say we don’t have enough sex according to an article he read. He was not a nice person and I’m struggling with it still.