Confused -- thoughts please!

does this girl like me?!

..Yes. Yes she does.

She talked about her boyfriend once

Okay so I have this weird guilty pleasure where I like watching infidelity and shows like Cheaters, even went through this phase of wanting to be a P.I. but moving on the point is after years of binge watching that kinda stuff you'd be shocked how often women cheat on the men in their lives with other women. And the guys almost always take them back too, lmao. Even Ingrid Neilson (the youtube beauty guru) admitted in her coming out that when she was hiding her sexual identity, she would cheat on her boyfriends with women behind their backs. Food for thought.

but a Gucci watch.

So basically... she doesn't want people to know she's off the market by looking at her (what a ring does) = she wants to cheat.

All I want to do is work out.

You can say anything, it's all about HOW you say it. "Hey, I know we usually talk and I want you to know I enjoyed you opening up to me and making my experience here great but I really need some space to clear my head and work on my goals while I'm here. I'm going through a rough patch and I just need some time to focus on a goal, is that okay?"

Golden rule 23.5 Any excuse is better than none. It's even better when it doesn't make clear sense because people can't argue their way around it. like if you said "Hey I want to work out over there" she might say "Oh, I'll come too!" but when you say all that, what's she supposed to say but "Okay"? Nothing. Which sounds like what you want lol.

she would work out right next to me.

Establish that you need a bit of space in the same manner as before. Say it with care and tact, but dammit girl just say it. If you keep going with the flow, you're gonna be posting about your first time with a girl by your next post.

I have no clue what her name is

HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.

.....

Haha. That's fucking hilarious.

And I totally freaking miss her!

Wait, huh?

Was she just being overly friendly or was she trying to hit on me

Hitting on you.

why do I have feelings for this person?

Well sweetie...

, I can't stop thinking of her.

does this girl like me?

I totally freaking miss her!

told me he never really cared for her like a girlfriend

Sounds like you're not as straight as you thought you were to me.

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