That’s great but please please please get healthy first. Don’t make a snap decision in a time of grief and misery. I understand you can not pour from a empty cup but we’re talking about your daughter not a puppy. Maybe even talk out loud about it to your therapist or your husband.

If in the end you decide that’s what’s best I accept that, adoption is a resource for a reason. I am also not judging you in any way. My oldest son (7) is not my biological son, he is my wife’s from a previous relationship and I know he’s safe with me and loves me very much as do I love him but I would never encourage a parent to sign over rights without some serious soul searching.