Yeah, it is.

But.

They're not thinking of what she might do to their reputations, in order to isolate them from other options.

Or all the ways she might use any addiction she can, on those who are vulnerable. Sex addiction, or drugs, it's all the same.

And then there's the way many men seek validation. How she provides that validation, and what they need to do, to earn it, can be even more destructive in the long run, than a direct attack.

But...at the same time, some are already going for the "Behave like someone's fantasy sex toy, instead of an actual human being." approach to any and all intimacy. And for many, the novelty of actually being desired, still hasn't worn off.

They feel like they're struggling with a test. One where they must remember all the right answers, or flunk.

I've been where they are, before. And it took actually meeting the women OP described, to teach me how horrible it really is, to only be used, by someone who enjoys tearing you down, in order to build themselves up.