Dating: Why does he text me after first date and then giving me the silent treatment?

I went out with this guy that I met at a restaurant (he was a waiter, and serving our table). We went out at a bar and had a good time until they closed. He asked if I wanted to go to an other one, so we did and stayed there until closing time. We were there for six hours talking about a lot of things. We had a lot in common; our parents are from the same country, we listen to the same music, have the same favorite writer in common etc. We ended up kissing for a long time and he walked me home (hand in hand) without trying to get up in my apartment with me. He was quite respectful even though he couldn't stop kissing me haha. Anyways, he texted me back the day after as soon as he woke up saying that he "had a fun time :-" We texted back and forth, and the day after he initiated a conversation again. So I thought that since he has shown initiative to text first aaaall the other times, it was my turn now. So I did and asked him if he wanted to get together sometime soon again, which he replied that "yes we definitely should :-".. I fell asleep without answering, so the morning after I asked him when we should find a date. I could see that he opened my message, but he never replied. 3 days has passed now, and I haven't heard anything from him. Not even a random snap chat. He IS a year younger than me, but he seemed so much mature, and it never seemed like it was an issue.. Bear in mind, he just ended a relationship with his girlfriend four months ago, and he has yet to delete all the couple pictures of them on his Facebook - I think maybe he hasn't gotten over her yet.. Did he lose interest? Or is it a part of a game he's playing? Why the sudden silent treatment when he was so interested before but also texted me a couple of times after the first date??

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