First one looks like you might be arriving home and straight play Xbox. I hope I’m wrong and you help around the house and keep your footprint minimal.

The second one you two should talk about it more. It’s a short commute more important for you than your relationship? Your relationship is more important than to be near your family, and that’s fine since you are planning to have your own family. To her being near her family is important probably because she is also planning on them to help with the future kids, and it’s nice to go lunch or dinner at her parents home since she probably doesn’t like to cook, and you don’t help much while playing Xbox.

Sorry.