I honestly dont think its depression. We still laugh and joke around. Shes excited cuz they keep moving her up at work and giving her raises cuz shes good at what she does. She told me she turned down a manager position because itd be too stressful and shes comfortable where shes at. "Not a morning person" is her excuse for waking up late and watching tv till she has to go in at 2pm. She works 2-11pm. I got us a gym membership and told her she has alot of time in the morning to go but its never used.

Now let me tell you Sunday's story. We went to IHOP right? Well I hadn't ate all day that day and she at least had breakfast. We order a big meal we get full and take half home. As soon as we get home she stays in the living room to watch tv and I go to the bedroom to chill. I come out a little later to get some water and she had made food for her next days lunch and made "too much" so shes eating a bowl of it. I was still so full from earlier I didnt eat the rest of the day. Then she remembers that she has a potluck at work the next day so she bakes a cake late at night. The next morning I'm in the kitchen fixing my breakfast and notice theres a slice missing from the cake. (We share our home with my brother and his wife.) I go and let her know they might have ate from it and ask, or was it her that ate from it? she tells me no but that she deicided not to take it after all so it's whatever. I go back to the kitchen and her coffee mug and a cakey fork are the only things in there! (we all have our own personal coffee mugs). I just dont know anymore...

Tl;dr I dont think its depression I think she's gotten lazy and is just letting herself go.