Got the "I think I made a huge Mistake" Text

...as if there aren't patterns in our behavior as human beings.. Right... we're all individuals and only behave exclusively like ourselves and no one else. You didn't even read my statement correctly, of course women feel low just like men yet it usually happens at different times. Men can be whores too, they are not innocent in that matter and that's exactly what I said in my original post yet you are choosing to completely ignore that part of my post because ouch I must've hurt your feelings. Yeah, people have baggage, I certainly do and I bet you do to. To have baggage is to be human, but to pretend that our baggage doesn't effect our behavior? Pure bullshit, my friend.

Take a psychology class and you will see BROAD generalizations of both sexes, based in truth and science, that shed light on people's behavioral patterns. That's literally the only way they can test theories on behavior is by distinguishing generalized patterns, hypothesizing why they happen, and testing them. Learn about sexual abuse and how victims function in relationships later in life, how they respond to sexuality, and you will see broad generalizations that are mostly true. We need to know these patterns in order to treat people's psychological problems. Talk to any psychologist and they will make broad claims about gender and throw out labels left and right for different behaviors like codependency, narcissism, gas lighting, "whore" might not be one of them but "sex addict" certainly is. Look, it's fine to whore around (I am guilty of it and I bet you are too) your problem is with labeling. Call a man a whore, no big deal, call a woman a whore? Misogynist. Good luck fighting that battle, friend. That's a war that will only lead to hatred and disappointment in the world. You'll be 90's years old and taking your last breath and probably think "I'm so glad I called that guy on reddit a mysoginist 60 years ago, I bet that really made a difference"

I'm tired of this ultra liberal bullshit where everyone's grotesque sexual behavior is all sunshine and rainbows as if there are zero consequences and zero reasons why people behave in such a way. Have fun living in your fantasy world where everyone is right all the time especially you and your own labeling of someone you barely know.

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