No problem! The number one reason is that virtually all of his time is accounted for. The only computer in the house is in a public area, and he would not watch porn from his phone. Plus, we sometime enjoy watching porn together and he wouldn't want to watch it without me. The same is true for masturbation, and he'd much rather have sex than masturbate. No time for an affair and I mean that literally, unless he's really meeting up for a 15 minute bj when he says he's going to the store.

The bottom line for us is that he really does enjoy sex, he just can't do it much more than once a week. We're talking about doing a 30 day sex challenge and even then, he's telling me that some days are probably just going to be him taking care of me with nothing in return.