3. How do I (37F) stop putting him (20M) on a pedestal and instead see myself as eq...

How do I (37F) stop putting him (20M) on a pedestal and instead see myself as equal?

You won’t read past the first sentence but you criticize me for not understanding you? Lol.

He is 20. He can date whoever he wants. He’s an adult.

There’s also nothing wrong with me finding beautiful MEN with great qualities attractive.

There’s also nothing wrong with liking milfs. People like different bodies. Maybe one day he will move on and that’s ok. He’s not a little boy. Maybe to you they are because you can’t understand that although young, he is a young MAN. If he didn’t want to be with me, he wouldn’t. There is literally no harm coming to him because of our being together. What is your problem when no one is gonna get hurt except me when he does finally probably move on?

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