How the actual FUCK am I meant to undo the IQ lowering, manosphere brainwashing that has infected my fiancé?

I appreciate your edit as this is exactly why I stopped using “white cis male” after I aged out of adolescence, though many of my friends still use it (I’m 33 and most of my friends are around my age).

It’s largely a coping mechanism, a boogeyman, and a horrible way to view a large group of generally innocent people. It’s “globalists” for unhappy women. It means nothing in most conversational contexts and usually inspires nothing but self-pity; at its worst, it creates red-pilled misogynists the same way those misogynists then in turn create more vigilant feminazis, and the cycle of hate continues.

Obviously, this is the same criticism I levy at Fresh & Fit. Hating women for being women achieves nothing (but they’re more interested in farming views and money than they are at dispensing successful self-help, so it’s not surprising).

We can talk about women’s issues without pointing out biological traits that other people cannot change. The white cis men carry largely the same genetic coding as every other human being; it’s life experience that creates the ‘problematic’ behaviors we see enacted.

You can change experiences and perceptions. So focus on that, and not arbitrary DNA. If there’s a shared experience or perception among men that prevents women from health and happiness, focus on changing that.

/r/Destiny Thread Parent